|
Users viewing this topic:
none
|
|
Login  | |
|
Dating, Transsexualism, and Bisexuality - 6/27/2008 5:43:28 PM
|
|
|
mariaangel
Posts: 4
Joined: 6/27/2008
Status: offline
|
I am a Male to Female Transsexual and when it comes to dating it is very challenging, I am always scared that the person I am dating might discover that my sexual parts are male or that my breasts arent natural, or if my makeup were to wear off or if I forget to take my hormones. There is a 1 in 12 chance that I will be killed if I am discovered to be transsexual, I guess that is what I am really scared of. But I shouldnt be scared of being who I am and have always been, unfortunately that is the way society works. Some of my ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends discovered that I am transsexual when they tried to turn the relationship into a sexual one, they either attacked me physically, verbally, or just left. I dont believe in or condone pre-marital sex in any way. Sex can only be in the facility of marriage. Also marriage is blind and about love, if you truly love the person you should have the right to be with them. My family doesnt talk to me anymore, many people I have known for a long time no longer talk to me, and because I express who I am. The people who accept me for being transsexual, they are the only ones that deserve to be called family or friends. I am with this girl named Caitlyn and I really love her so I want to be able to tell her that I am transsexual, I just dont know how to do it and how she will react, since my other relationships havent ended well. Can anyone give me advice or suggestions or ideas as to how I can tell her? Because, I really dont know what to do or what to say without causing a bad reaction.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Dating, Transsexualism, and Bisexuality - 6/27/2008 6:17:46 PM
|
|
|
preserved
Posts: 923
Joined: 6/12/2007
Status: offline
|
I with allisonbrett...Hope you checked with TOS on this subject...It can get very touchy...and best answer to your question is to be honest and tell her the truth..You owe her that!!
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Dating, Transsexualism, and Bisexuality - 6/27/2008 6:35:27 PM
|
|
|
mariaangel
Posts: 4
Joined: 6/27/2008
Status: offline
|
Well I am Transsexual and Bisexual, not homosexual, so I dont really know, but I just wanted to have suggestions as to what I should do. Also If I consider myself female dating another girl would make it a lesbian relationship, but there is nothing wrong with that as long as I love her, and jesus would agree. Also, I know I need to tell her the truth, but I just dont know how.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Dating, Transsexualism, and Bisexuality - 6/27/2008 6:41:05 PM
|
|
|
ta_mosquito
Posts: 11164
Joined: 3/31/2005
From: from MN, now in Ontario :D
Status: offline
|
In an attempt to consolidate for the purpose of effective moderation we have created a couple One Stop threads for the topic of homosexuality. Therefore, this thread on the topic is being closed.
Please continue your discussion in one of the following One Stop Threads.
Please do not use our Community to in any way promote or advocate the acceptability of same-sex unions/marriage, homosexual/bisexual activity, or homosexual adoption rights.
Please review our statement on what is acceptable regarding discussion on homosexuality in our Range of Doctrines, found HERE. Direct any questions regarding this policy to community@salemwebnetwork.com
Click on one of the following links:
Homosexuality
Homosexuality in the News
Thank you!
Tricia
Forums Moderator
Please do not reply to this message within the forums or chat.
Please email Community@salemwebnetwork.com with questions, comments, or concerns.
Please do not send me PMs regarding this message.
|
|
|
|
 New Messages |
 No New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/ New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/o New Messages |
 Locked w/ New Messages |
 Locked w/o New Messages |
|
 Post New Thread
Reply to Message
Post New Poll
Submit Vote
Delete My Own Post
Delete My Own Thread
Rate Posts |
|
|
Forum Tools
Printable Version
