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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/27/2008 9:37:50 PM   
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The only perfection our salvation is contingent upon is the perfection of Christ! Thank God, cause I would never have made it!




None of us would have made it then, friend. Thanks be to God for his amazing grace.
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/27/2008 11:09:47 PM   
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However, to imply that God is going to shield His Children from harmful experiences is very insensitive.


I did not imply that at all.
What I said was that God will help us work 'through' harmful experiences, I never once said God would shield us from them....not once did I even imply that.

And again, people make choices out of free will. We can 'choose' to listen to God and be obedient, or we can ignore him and make choices based on our feelings and our self pity. The fact remains....suicide is direct disobedience to God no matter how you look at it.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 12:42:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dmistich The only perfection our salvation is contingent upon is the perfection of Christ! Thank God, cause I would never have made it! This is a tough topic, because the thought of going to hell for committing suicide may actually keep some from doing it. BUT, who has the right to judge someone who is sick or hurting badly enough to commit suicide? People don't commit suicide because they are evil. They do it because they are in pain. Enough pain stored up causes mental illness. Enough mental illness and ... I lived it and God just simply told me to stop, get up, quit crying. He picked me up, dusted me off and put me back on my feet. He wasn't mad at me! I can imagine Him doing the same for those who don't make it in this life.
The hardest part with dealing with depression and mental illness is believing tomorrow is a new day tomorrow is a good day. Its like being taken prisoner it wrecks your whole life. Its all your consumed with. The tears the panic attacks the uncontrollable fear of people because you think there going to hurt you or point and laugh at you.locking yourself up in your home covering your windows never allowing the sun to come in. Then getting sick because your not getting enough sun light. It is a genuine medical problem that can and does get out of control more than somes arrogant soap boxes will allow them to believe. To say that God wouldn't allow this to happen to a believer speaking of suicide shows a real lack of knowledge on that subject. Statistics do not lie there is a very high rate of suicide amongst us and its absurd to even suggest not one of these people are saved if they do do it. Suicide is something the church rarely addresses unless its with contempt or ignorance. Ive heard Pastors selfishly boast about never having to deal with depression because there prozac is the bible and then heartlessly suggest those who suffer from depression have some sort of sin in there lives that there trying to hide or there somehow not grounded in Gods word or a church. I am sorry that type of disgusting heartless thinking is why a lot of Christians have lost faith in there church or pastors. It shows a lack of TRUE knowledge on the subject and a high dose of arrogant trash thinking. I know thats harsh but thats how I feel ive seeked the churches help for my own depression some of it has been wonderfully positive some of it has been horribly negative from these quack crack pots who are think my depression is demonic and I need an excorsism to a councelor who took the idea that depression is a sign of some horrible sin in my life as well as some sort of generational curse on my family. There needs to be a balanced thinking on the subject Pastors need to listen to us when we go to them for help not talk over us with hyper spiritual rhetoric. If we dont have our pastors who do we have if we dont have our Christian friends for support.prayer and fellowship we have nothing were alone and im tired of fighting it alone and being to afraid to go to a fellow Christian because all I will get is arrogance and judgement and not the compassion and prayer that I need that those of us like me needs. Now how many people have I just upset and angered because of what I just wrote lol. I am sorry but ive lived it some of you havent had the luxury of coming home seeing your loved blue and lieing lifeless on a couch touching her arm feeling how warm it is but knowing life is gone. God I pray right now it never happens to any of you it opens up a whole new reality to you and your safe zones and your soap boxes and your SUREITY of whats right meens Absolutely nothing in the face of mental illness. take care Casper

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 8:03:36 AM   
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Still, no one takes my challenge to prove that you can lose your salvation. That's the central issue here. For this topic to even be valid, one would have to prove you could lose your salvation first. Once you prove that, then you can ask if suicide is forgiven. But no one has prove biblically yet that a person can lose their salvation. Please, someone, prove that you can lose salvation first. Once you can do that (which you cannot biblically), then you can debate whether suicide is forgiven or not. And, by the way, blaspheming the Holy Spirit is the only unforgiveable sin mentioned in the Bible. Not suicide. This thread really needs to address the central issue first before it continues aimlessly...

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 9:00:30 AM   
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However, to imply that God is going to shield His Children from harmful experiences is very insensitive.


I did not imply that at all.
What I said was that God will help us work 'through' harmful experiences, I never once said God would shield us from them....not once did I even imply that.


You did say this:
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ORIGINAL: Robert_G

Do people here honestly believe that God would allow a the circumstances of a Christian lead him/her to suicide?






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ORIGINAL: Robert_G

And again, people make choices out of free will. We can 'choose' to listen to God and be obedient, or we can ignore him and make choices based on our feelings and our self pity. The fact remains....suicide is direct disobedience to God no matter how you look at it.
Robert, we may actually be agreeing more than disagreeing at the moment; I'm not sure, nor will I have time this week to thrash it out.

I do think some of the words you have used in your posts in this thread seem to be a bit insensitive to people who have lost loved ones through suicide, but that's my thing to work through.

I will say that while fear and panic and not being able to trust God in that moment can often be driving forces when one is considering to take their life, I highly doubt that self-pity is. People who self-pity usually want other people around for that to refute everything they say about theirself. I've never know of a truly suicidal self-pitying person.


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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 10:05:48 PM   
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You did say this:
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Do people here honestly believe that God would allow a the circumstances of a Christian lead him/her to suicide?




Yes, I did say that, but all it means is that I strongly believe that God would intervene 'during' those circumstances in a way that would prevent the person from going through with it. I'm not saying that God takes away our free will. I'm saying he would find a way, whether it be comforting from another Christian, or any way that God would choose to use to keep that person from committing suicide...but it would NOT cross the line of taking our free will away from us.

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ORIGINAL: WhiteRoseBlessings
I do think some of the words you have used in your posts in this thread seem to be a bit insensitive to people who have lost loved ones through suicide, but that's my thing to work through.


I do understand that the subject here can be sensitive. And I have lost people who are close to me that took their own lives, so I'm not coming out of left field.
However, even secular people will tell you that suicide is selfish. Suicide hurts the loved ones that are alive the most..and it makes you realize that the person that committed suicide 'probably' never even considered the feelings of others, because if they knew how much it would hurt them, they would realize that they are worth something to OTHER people.
And someone (sane person) who KNOWS they have worth to others, wouldn't go through with it without 'knowingly' being selfish.


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ORIGINAL: WhiteRoseBlessings
I will say that while fear and panic and not being able to trust God in that moment can often be driving forces when one is considering to take their life, I highly doubt that self-pity is. People who self-pity usually want other people around for that to refute everything they say about theirself. I've never know of a truly suicidal self-pitying person.


Blessings,
Sharon-Marie


Um.....
Self pity is just that....SELF...IE....Having pity for yourself. It has nothing to do with seeking pity from others.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 10:22:50 PM   
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Robert,

I never said it wasn't selfish.

In fact, to quote myself:
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"Suicide is selfish." I have said this many times throughout the years. I still believe it. Suicide IS selfish. The pain of grieving a suicide is beyond horrendous.


Following that statement, I also then said:
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However . . . that's a pretty judgmental statement. I knew CS was suffering; I knew the depths of his pain were intensely deep. I knew this. I saw his suffering. I felt it. I held him as he cried. Sometimes I cried with him; many times I cried alone - because I didn't want to needlessly burden him.

I knew he was suffering. So how can I say that suicide is selfish when I knew how much pain he was in? Isn't it selfish of me to say such a thing?

Chemical Depression is a disease. A disease just like cancer or any other disease that attacks the body. The difference is that Chemical Depression attacks the mind . . . and we, as a people, are still pretty unsure of how to respond to diseases of the mind . . . the stigmas and all.




Both of these quotes can be found in my blog post entitled, "The Surrealisms and Contradictions
of Suicide," written November 14, 2005. You're welcomed to read the entire post >HERE<. Or not; your choice.



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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 10:25:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WhiteRoseBlessings

You did say this:
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ORIGINAL: Robert_G

Do people here honestly believe that God would allow a the circumstances of a Christian lead him/her to suicide?




Yes, I did say that, but all it means is that I strongly believe that God would intervene 'during' those circumstances in a way that would prevent the person from going through with it. I'm not saying that God takes away our free will. I'm saying he would find a way, whether it be comforting from another Christian, or any way that God would choose to use to keep that person from committing suicide...but it would NOT cross the line of taking our free will away from us.
As to this, we will simply have to agree to disagree on some of these aspects.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 10:53:12 PM   
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I will say that while fear and panic and not being able to trust God in that moment can often be driving forces when one is considering to take their life, I highly doubt that self-pity is. People who self-pity usually want other people around for that to refute everything they say about theirself. I've never know of a truly suicidal self-pitying person.


Blessings,
Sharon-Marie


Um.....
Self pity is just that....SELF...IE....Having pity for yourself. It has nothing to do with seeking pity from others.


Robert- easy to say unless you've been there. I'm not talking about "the blues" or "feeling down" once in a while.
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/28/2008 11:40:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Cephyr13 Still, no one takes my challenge to prove that you can lose your salvation. That's the central issue here. For this topic to even be valid, one would have to prove you could lose your salvation first. Once you prove that, then you can ask if suicide is forgiven. But no one has prove biblically yet that a person can lose their salvation. Please, someone, prove that you can lose salvation first. Once you can do that (which you cannot biblically), then you can debate whether suicide is forgiven or not. And, by the way, blaspheming the Holy Spirit is the only unforgiveable sin mentioned in the Bible. Not suicide. This thread really needs to address the central issue first before it continues aimlessly...
Your right. I will leave it alone on my part it has gotten a bit off topic. But still it is valid from my point of view off or on. And Robert I meant no ill will toward you. I hope you didnt feel I was flaming you. take care
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 12:22:22 AM   
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Casper, I'm sure you don't have anything personal against me, so its all good.
Sharon. I find your Blog interesting.

I realize how sensitive an issue this is, and I'm glad to say that I'm learning to be more sensitive towards it, because I used to be a lot more blunt then I am today.

But to give you an idea where I'm coming from, let me explain how I look at things.
When scripture instructs us on how to live our lives, one of the central themes in the bible is that we are to live our lives in "The Joy of the Lord", place our all our Hope/Faith/Trust in God (and only God), and live daily believing in the promises that God has given us.....how can we fail? Knowing that the perfect God is in control.
My question is this. As a Christian, how can we not know that the perfect God is in control? If God is perfect, and he is in control of our lives, why do we worry?
Can we live this theme perfectly? Of course not, but if we 'base' our lives around this, we will always look to God first, and realize that he IS bigger then any problem or circumstance in our lives. Once we realize how 'small' our problems really are, we can live our lives for God daily as he desires us to.

What stops us from trusting and having faith?
Think about this and then let me know what you think.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 1:49:12 AM   
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What stops us from trusting and having faith?
Think about this and then let me know what you think.


Never knowing how to trust or have faith and mental illnesses.
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 5:55:37 AM   
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Casper, I'm sure you don't have anything personal against me, so its all good.
Sharon. I find your Blog interesting.

I realize how sensitive an issue this is, and I'm glad to say that I'm learning to be more sensitive towards it, because I used to be a lot more blunt then I am today.

But to give you an idea where I'm coming from, let me explain how I look at things.
When scripture instructs us on how to live our lives, one of the central themes in the bible is that we are to live our lives in "The Joy of the Lord", place our all our Hope/Faith/Trust in God (and only God), and live daily believing in the promises that God has given us.....how can we fail? Knowing that the perfect God is in control.
My question is this. As a Christian, how can we not know that the perfect God is in control? If God is perfect, and he is in control of our lives, why do we worry?
Can we live this theme perfectly? Of course not, but if we 'base' our lives around this, we will always look to God first, and realize that he IS bigger then any problem or circumstance in our lives. Once we realize how 'small' our problems really are, we can live our lives for God daily as he desires us to.

What stops us from trusting and having faith?
Think about this and then let me know what you think.




What stoped Peter from having faith to keep walking on water when Christ was right there in front of him?

I come from the perspective of a person that has attempted suicide and I was a believing Christian at the time. Just because I have faith in God does not mean I will have the willpower to live a life of what to me is torment. I do not think it is a question of mental illness or not either, when I slit my arm I knew perfectly well what I was doing I was trying to end my life on this earth but at the same time I thought I was going to heaven also, I knew it was a sin but I was believing in the forgiveness and grace of Christ.

Also the question you give about wouldn't God intervene and save someone from committing suicide if they were truly a Christian I would say thats a bunch of balogne because I could of easily hung myself instead like so many others have in times past and there would of been nothing to save me from dieing then, instead I cut my arm and made a pretty big gash but did not cut a main artery so there was not enough blood flow for me to die from my blood kept clotting up even when I rinsed it with water. Thats free will for you God allows us to make decisions for ourselfs and we will suffer the consequences of those decisions weather they be good or evil do you remember the verse that says God rains on the just and the unjust alike?

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 1:51:56 PM   
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The answer is simple. If the person was saved they went to heaven, if they were not they went to hell. Before I became a Christian, I didnt deserve salvation, and now that I am saved I still dont deserve it. I believe once you are saved (trully had a life changing experience) your eternal life is secure no matter what. In other words once saved always saved.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 3:05:45 PM   
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Still haven't seen anyone prove biblically that you can lose your salvation yet.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 3:26:40 PM   
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Still haven't seen anyone prove biblically that you can lose your salvation yet.


Probably because that isn't the main topic of this thread.

I suppose there are those who feel that if a person were to commit suicide, then they were never really saved to begin with. I don't believe that, but I'm sure there are those that do. BTW- I'm a firm fence-sitter on the OSAS debate, but that's best saved for the one-stop thread for it.
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 5:44:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Cephyr13

Still haven't seen anyone prove biblically that you can lose your salvation yet.


Probably because that isn't the main topic of this thread.

I suppose there are those who feel that if a person were to commit suicide, then they were never really saved to begin with. I don't believe that, but I'm sure there are those that do. BTW- I'm a firm fence-sitter on the OSAS debate, but that's best saved for the one-stop thread for it.


But it IS the central topic of this thread whether people understand that or not. Here are the possibilities:

1. Once saved always saved is correct: in which case, we know suicide will not send you to hell if you're saved.

2. Once saved always saved is not correct, in which case, the suicide goes to hell or heaven depending on whether suicide is covered under the sins Jesus died for or proper protocol for forgiveness.

If #1 is true, then this topic of debate is over. If #2 is true, then we must then explore if one has to ask forgiveness to get forgiveness for a sin after they're saved, and we must ask what sins are forgiveable and which are not. We know blasphemy of the Holy Spirit (rejecting Him) is the only unforgiveable sin mentioned in the Bible. Everything else is forgiveable. Which brings us back to protocol: Does one have to ask forgiveness for EVERY sin they commit in order to be forgiven for it? And is one sin worse than another?

1. Is one sin worse than another? No. There's a verse that says all sin is the same to God.

2. Does one have to ask forgiveness for every sin they commit in order to get forgiven of it, or are their sins already forgiven perpetually, or do you have to ask forgiveness for ALL of your sins quite often but not naming them each individually?

For #2 to be true, it would also be true that if anyone forgets to repent of a sin during their life time, and they are not forgiven of it, when they get to heaven, God will say, "You forgot to ask forgiveness for this one sin, which means you have to pay the price for sin under the law of sin and death, which means you have to go to hell." Now that doesn't sound too logical to me. Either you have to ask forgiveness for EVERY sin you commit, or you can ask forgiveness once when you accept forgiveness and Jesus covers all of your sins. Or, you have to ask occasionally for all your sins to be forgiven again.

Now, here's where that gets confusing: If #2 is true and we must ask forgiveness of some sort after we commit sins after we're saved, then that would mean NOT asking for forgiveness condemns us, right? That doesn't seem to line up with the Bible at all, though. In my next post, I'll show what the Bible says about salvation, and that may clarify this issue a lot better.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/29/2008 7:08:01 PM   
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In my last post I showed how proving or disproving once saved always saved is the core issue of this topic and must first be determined before the conversation can go on. Because if once saved always saved is true, then there's no reason to have this conversation, because suicide is covered by Jesus' sacrifice. If once saved always saved is not correct, then suicide may or may not be covered under Jesus' sacrifice. I'm going to show what the Bible says about salvation.

Here's what Jesus, Paul and David say about salvation:

Jesus:
John 11:25-26 25Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies,
26and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die.

If you can die spiritually (by committing suicide or sinning in any way) after accepting Jesus, it would make Jesus a liar.

John 3:36
"He who believes in the Son has eternal life" (present tense "has" eternal life)

If you can lose eternal life that Jesus gave you when you were saved, then it was never eternal to begin with, because eternal means you cannot ever lose it. It would make Jesus a liar if suicide caused you to lose that eternal life.

John 10:28-29
and I give eternal life to them, and they will never perish; and no one will snatch them out of My hand. My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand.

If suicide or sin of any kind can snatch a person out of God's hand, it would mean that person is more powerful than God and His grasp. I don't see how that's possible.

Paul:

Romans 8:1-2
1Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
2For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death.

So, for those who are "in Christ" (born again/saved), there's no condemnation, and we are no longer under the law of sin and death, but under the law of the Spirit of life (that would be the Holy Spirit that birthed us, hence the term "born again"). "No condemnation" would cover suicide, I'd imagine.

Romans 8:37-39
37But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us.
38For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers,
39nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

As we see here, Paul says nothing (including suicide) can separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Notice it doesn't say "the love of God." It says, "The love of God WHICH IS IN Jesus Christ OUR Lord." So, he specifically defines Christians there. He's not saying God loves everyone. He's saying God's love for us is because we are saved by Jesus and loved by Jesus.

John 3:36
"He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him."

So, from this verse, we know the last verse, Romans 8:39 is specifically talking about those saved by Christ.

David:
Psalm 32:1-2
1How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered!
2How blessed is the man to whom the LORD does not impute iniquity,
And in whose spirit there is no deceit!

Impute means to not count against. David says sins are not counted against God's people. Even David knew that God eternally saved His people in the Old Testament and that their sins were not counted against them. That's profound for many, because they do not recognize that the old covenant included eternal salvation from all sins just like our new covenant does through Jesus. But we won't get into that. Paul even quotes these exact verses in the New Testament, showing that the old and new covenants cover all sins for all times.

So, if sin is not counted against you, how can suicide (which is murder, a sin) be counted against you and condemn you? David would be a liar if suicide could condemn you.

Hebrews:

Hebrews 6:4-6
4For in the case of those who have once been enlightened and have tasted of the heavenly gift and have been made partakers of the Holy Spirit,
5and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come,
6and then have fallen away, it is impossible to renew them again to repentance, since they again crucify to themselves the Son of God and put Him to open shame.

Most people try to use this to say that it means you can lose your salvation. It actually says the opposite, that you cannot lose it. It's one big sentence, and very confusing with all the commas. So let's break it down to its core message:

For in the case of those who have once been enlightened (saved), it is impossible to renew them again to repentance, SINCE they again crucify to themselves the Son of God...(rephrased)

Now, all I did was cut out the descriptions in the middle that weren't important. Let me rephrase it again by reconfiguring the sentence so it's more easily understood:

SINCE they again crucify to themselves the Son of God, it is impossible renew them again to repentance.

In other words, you cannot recrucify Christ, because He died for your sins once and for all. There was a teaching at the time that if you commit sin after you're born again, you have to recrucify Christ again to get rid of those sins and get your salvation back. He was refuting that belief by telling them that is absurd. All one needs to do is accept Christ and all your sins are forgiven, and there's no need to try and recrucify Him again. He was saying it was impossible to do so.

There are no verses that say you can lose your salvation, and especially not verses that say sin causes you to lose it. If anyone wants to post any up, I'm more than happy to refute them. Hebrews 10 usually comes up, but it's clearly talking about unsaved Christians and unsaved Jews in that verse. It's more than obvious when you read through those 5 verses.

If anyone wants to post any verses that you think say you can lose your salvation, please do. I'm more than happy to refute them. I've never once been presented with a verse that says you can lose your salvation. They're all quite clear on what they mean if you understand exactly what they're saying and don't apply any extra meaning to them.

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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/30/2008 11:00:21 AM   
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In my last post I showed how proving or disproving once saved always saved is the core issue of this topic and must first be determined before the conversation can go on.

I completely disagree that eternal security is at issue on this topic.

I once believed that eternal life depended on, was conditional on MY works up until my last breath. Since then, reading the Bible apart from a denominational doctrine, I've change my position and now believe that Grace saves and Grace keeps.

But my view on whether suicide keeps one from heaven has remained the same across those two positions.

The issue is whether salvation is nullified by a chemical imbalance in the brain or by mental illness or disease. If it is, then our "religion" is a pretty sad affair and we are in serious need of meeting the real Jesus, God the Son.
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RE: is suicide forgiven? - 4/30/2008 3:14:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JimboFletch

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In my last post I showed how proving or disproving once saved always saved is the core issue of this topic and must first be determined before the conversation can go on.

I completely disagree that eternal security is at issue on this topic.

I once believed that eternal life depended on, was conditional on MY works up until my last breath. Since then, reading the Bible apart from a denominational doctrine, I've change my position and now believe that Grace saves and Grace keeps.

But my view on whether suicide keeps one from heaven has remained the same across those two positions.

The issue is whether salvation is nullified by a chemical imbalance in the brain or by mental illness or disease. If it is, then our "religion" is a pretty sad affair and we are in serious need of meeting the real Jesus, God the Son.


I too believe that once you're saved, you're always saved. And so I think this discussion is null and void for born again Christians. Now, for the unsaved that commit suicide, you're saying that you want to know if they go to hell just because of a chemical imbalance in the brain? I'm not sure if I'm misunderstanding you.

You seem to be believing that the chemical imbalance in the brain is the cause of the suicide. But that would mean that you're saying that a person does not have free will IF they have an imbalance of chemicals in their brain and are not choosing for themselves, but rather something else is controlling them and making them commit suicide, and that something else is chemical imbalance.

I believe in demon possession, but only if one lends themselves to the demon in some form or fashion through either the occult or some practice that allows a demon to come in and actually take control of the person. Somehow, they've given up free will to an extent and allowed a demon in to control them at times. But a chemical imbalance controlling someone, I don't buy that for a second. You must determine what caused the chemical imbalance in the first place. I have heard of tons of people who had chemical imbalances and they did not get on medication but instead simply changed the way they viewed life and once they reestablished their outlook on life and CHOOSE to be happy, their chemical imbalance suddenly went away. Psychologists will vouch for that all day long, because they see it all the time. There are books out there that even talk about how someone repenting of certain sins (after they're born again) has suddenly come out of depression and they no longer have a chemical imbalance in their brain. Check out A More Excellent Way by Henry W. Wright. He has tons of testimonies in that book about things like this and other illnesses cursed, both mental and physical, through repenting of certain sins believed to cause those illnesses.

What I find interesting is that Christians believe the Bible, yet they either don't know about, or choose to ignore some major major warnings in the Bi