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TMeeks -> RE: Should Scripture be used in Christian Counseling? (3/15/2008 5:08:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Cloak Do you think Scripture should be used in Christian Counseling and if yes, in which circumstances? The issue isn't whether to use Scripture or not to use Scripture; but, to intelligently use Scripture. First, we need an intelligent view of why the Scriptures are not only helpful; but, essential to Christian counseling. Who made the human body and the human mind? God. Who best knows the distortions that occur in the human body and the human mind due to the fall? God. So, it stands to reason that the Scriptures, particularly when they deal with thinking and actions, are written from an extremely intelligent level to communicate the best practices for mankind. In other words, every single thing in the Bible with regards to human behavior is based on an intimate knowledge of human behavior and is written to lead us the thinking and actions that will ultimately be the best for us. So, to ignore Scripture is to ignore the greatest body of literature regarding human behavior at the highest level. Secondly, we need an intelligent view of if and how a certain passage of Scripture actually applies in a given situation. And, we need to be absolutely sure that we have the correct interpretation of the meaning of the Scripture before applying it. This is where so many pastors, counselors and Christian friends let us down. They are too intellectually lazy or too intellectually dishonest to ensure that the Scripture that they lay on us even applies. Thirdly, we need to apply Scripture in the spirit in which it was written... for our good. In many of the instances cited in these threads where Scripture backfired, it was because the counselor applied the Scriptures contrary to the spirit with which God gave them to us. If God gave us the Scriptures as insights into those behaviours and thought patterns that represent the best practices for our brains and bodies, then they should be presented in positive terms. But, some like to use these Scriptures like a club. Since Scripture is meant for our good, I fail to see how using it as a club does any good at all. It fails to convey why God gave us these insights into the first place. For instance, "Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery" is very good advice. One of the reasons it's very good advice is that God knew that the way a female's brain bonds in a sexual affair can be quite different from a male since the area where the bonding connections are formed is more active in the female. This mismatch is bound to end in pain as the woman starts to want more out of the relationship than the male. It's a physical brain reality. But, it's rarely presented as God's protection. It's most often used as a bludgeon of condemnation. Yes, it IS a command. Yes, it is an abomination. But, why? It hurts the person that God loves. And, to God, hurting ourselves and others is a huge sin. He wants us to have abundant lives. So, in reality God is saying you will not have an abundant life if you commit adultery. You will have an unhappy life filled with guilt and pain. You can see this demonstrated when Christ came face-to-face with the woman taken in adultery. "Neither do I condemn thee" shows the heart behind the commandment and "Go and sin no more" shows that he still recognized her actions as sin that needed to be abandoned for her own good.
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