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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/13/2008 11:50:23 PM
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DreadPirateRandy
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Being overweight
or more descriptive, someone who doesn't take care of their physical body.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/14/2008 3:09:45 AM
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Jeff_from_Kentucky
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What really turns you off in women?
Lying!
Toward the end of my marriage I discovered that my ex-wife had lied about many things from the day I met her.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/14/2008 11:34:05 AM
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Konstantinos
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weakness
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/30/2008 5:20:58 PM
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When women show cleavage, coinslot, panties, tease and think that they are doing you a favor by talking to you.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/30/2008 6:52:55 PM
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Konstantinos
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cleavage turns you off?
or the doing you a favor by talking to you part?
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/30/2008 7:09:48 PM
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pberardi
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ORIGINAL: Konstantinos
cleavage turns you off?
or the doing you a favor by talking to you part?
all of the above. Women show cleavage for one reason, to get attention. Women believe that they can control men with sex so they use cleavage, coinslots and panties as hooks. As far as I am concerned, I look more upon the motive rather than the actual thing. Therefore yes cleavage is a turn off.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 5/30/2008 10:25:15 PM
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Pauley464
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>Smoking
>Trashy appearance
>Militant feminists
>Inferring hidden meanings from everything you say, which were never implied
>Loud, obnoxious behavior
>Excessive stupidity
>Pretending to be dumber than they actually are because they think it's what attracts men.
>Combativeness
>Argumentativeness
>Extreme left-wing beliefs
>Vegans
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/5/2008 3:35:34 PM
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NealIRC
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cleavage turns you off?
or the doing you a favor by talking to you part?
all of the above. Women show cleavage for one reason, to get attention.
Not so. Not all women show cleavage for that reason.
In fact, there's probably plenty.
Then why is it married woman don't necessarily show less cleavage from before when they were single?
Then why would a Black girl in a mostly-White class, whom might prefer Black guys, show cleavage?
Or, has anyone taken into account the weather?
I suppose your statement might as well be 100% true when it comes to the outdoor winter and snow storms and such.
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Women believe that they can control men with sex so they use cleavage, coinslots and panties as hooks. As far as I am concerned, I look more upon the motive rather than the actual thing. Therefore yes cleavage is a turn off.
It may not be a direct inference to sex.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/8/2008 1:35:35 PM
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What turns me off in women?
When they dress in ways that show their bodies off too much. (since it won't stop once we're together) If that lured me, my priorities weren't right and neither were hers.
Swearing. Smoking. Drinking. Gossiping. Party girls. Fakeness.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/12/2008 4:02:07 PM
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Acting like they are to good to talk to you. Cussing. Bad breath. Jeans--the kind that are so tight that they outline all the areas that should be discovered/uncovered in marriage.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/13/2008 2:52:31 PM
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One word:
NASCAR.
Actually that is an anacronym of several words but when using the singular term it becomes......... Well you get it.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/13/2008 3:01:13 PM
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Konstantinos
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i dont get it
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/13/2008 3:24:48 PM
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liberal Democrat Obama-bot
moody--having to tiptoe around her
lying
needy, i.e..."you don't say that you love me enough"
controlling/thinking they can change me
never wants to try anything new
makes no attempt at physical fitness
ultrafeminist
vegan
selfish--doesn't want you to pursue active hobbies (kayaking, etc,) if it doesn't involve her
smoking
nags--youshoulddo, youougta, youneedto, wouldashouldacoulda....
too many piercings or tatoos
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/22/2008 1:34:02 AM
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Darien8869
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I know many ladies think its superficial for guys to care about looks and that we should love them just the way they are.
Yeah, but the problem is they don't want to let us see them the way they really are. They paint everything like their face was an old barn or something. and they think we like all that fake color on their eyelids, and after kissing them we feel like we've been rolling in the mud or something from all the makeup.
I HATE MAKEUP on a woman. It's not natural, it's fake, it's deceptive to hide behind all that stuff. Besides If I'm attracted to a girl, I LIKE the way SHE looks, not the way she TRIES to look. I want to show her off without the people I'm showing her off to, thinking I found her on a street corner somewhere.
I can't stand women who will not be submissive to their mate. I would never treat a woman any way except as my equal, my love, my queen, BUT if a compromise can't be reached and a decision has to be made, it IS the MAN's place to have the final word. I honestly think this is part of the reason a lot of men are gay today. Women have become so modern in their appearance, their attitudes, their ambitions, their "rights" and so on. liberalism, feminism and modernism has completely changed the way women are today. Hey, I mean it worked out great all those centuries when it stayed like God said himself that He wanted it to be. When you go messing around with that, you can expect disaster. High divorce rates, single parent homes being the "norm" and men being submissive to their wife. Not this old boy!
MATERIALISM: This is a big one for me. One of my ex-fiancees remained friends with me several years after we broke up. Last time I talked to her, her husband was working three jobs, she was working and complaining they just couldn't make ends meet. Her job alone was a great paying job...glad I didn't marry her. They had a brand new very nice home, two new SUVs, all new furniture and wanted more more more.
Some of you mentioned low libido as a turn off. I can understand that, but I also have a problem with the other side of that coin. TOO MUCH LIBIDO. It seems women today aren't as much on the low side as some might think. All they think about is sex, kinda like a 13 year old boy. Sex is well, you know........ BUT I don't want to be chained up and used as a slave either. I want a woman who is happy with what I can give her and isn't interested in going out somewhere else to find more.
DIVORCE: I can't help it, but when I see a single woman who has been divorced the first thing I think of is "if she divorced one man, she will divorce another". That reaks of a lack of committment. Oh and that's another point, I've heard so many women talk about men being afraid of committment. I've been engaged like eight times now and in EVERY CASE it was the woman who got cold feet and backed out. One of those only nice days before our wedding. (her husband works three jobs....poor stiff)
That being said, a widow with children is fine. unless of course her husband died of "suspicious causes" I think most everything else for me has already been mentioned on this thread. Very interesting topic and we seem to be all in one accord on this issue.
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Now if we could just keep em outta the Men's threads. 
Actually I think this is one thread we should force them to read. Maybe it would educate them a bit.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/22/2008 2:44:16 PM
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Someone that doesn't like dogs; or, worse yet, one that owns a yapping ankle-biting one.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 6/22/2008 6:02:17 PM
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freakofnature
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I've been engaged like eight times now and in EVERY CASE it was the woman who got cold feet and backed out.
No offense my friend, but I think I would reassess the women I chose??? I don't mind make up at all. For some women it is like enhancing a Picasso. Just when you don't think it can look better, whammo! Some eyeliner and blush and bada boom bada bing!
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/2/2008 4:41:27 PM
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Leo71
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When she talks entirely too much -- about things I am clearly not interested in hearing, let alone discussing.
Also, if she happens to be a Valley Girl. Burns me up to no end whenever one of these sassy, spoiled-rotten daddy's girls come bouncing past with their typical "OMG" lingo! Might as well rake their fingernails up and down a chalkboard while I'm trying to read!
Also, constant nagging about petty things that do not require nagging.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/4/2008 9:09:30 PM
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jn1010lf
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Hello TomTurn
Well, let me see.
Pushiness; possessiveness; lack of humility.
Too spiritual; piosness, holier than thou attitude.
Over weight.
Inappropriate clothing.
Lack of zest for life.
Corny sense of humor.
Over use of makeup, let me see what you really look like.
Old time Pentecostal drabness.
I suppose there's more but that's enough for now.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/22/2008 5:50:58 PM
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sgpianoman
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Old time Pentecostal drabness.
LOL! I agree
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/23/2008 12:33:14 AM
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LCannon
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Desperation, poor hygiene(that includes smoking) and duplicity.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/24/2008 1:47:31 AM
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OneJohn410
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Hi Tom. It is your turn to answer this fine question yourself.
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ORIGINAL: TomTurn
What really turns you off in women?
The how are you doing? / Haven't heard from you in a while coin with flip-side of not returning answering machine messages
Repeatedly declines lunch invitations over the course of a month
the yellow-page memory... there's always an invitation to fix/repair/help/do something call, and rarely a thanks/wannado lunch/grab some ice cream somewhere (or frozen yogurt for the desired supermodels everyone is so hip about) call
stressed out
lots of sighing
heavy talker/borderline gossiper
self-denigrator - I hate my hair, etc.
the pseudo-angry outbursts: I hate my mother, my father, my brother, my best friend... for creating a difficult situation
the no opinion/no suggestion mode: Where should we go out to eat? Oh, I don't know, where do you want to go? Works for movies, pizza toppings, what pizza place, what chicken place, all those little decisions when you'd rather she take a turn at them.
But when the list is all typed up nice and sent into cyberspace... really, TomTurn, what a frightening world it would be if all these disappeared altogether. There's coping strategies, and personalized techniques that will never be known for dealing with the turned off position, but the question I do believe we must ask ourselves- the turned off position is really not so bad come to think about it. What if there was no off? It wouldn't be heaven, and some wonderful scientists would be scrambling to find turn offs somehow to give everyone a break! We'd be screaming, raving maniacs, in search of some variance in our environment. We'd want peace and quiet, and then it would get too quiet, and there'd be no improvisations or difficulties or challenges. That, brothers, is a scary thought to me.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/24/2008 2:14:02 PM
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JohnCo
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Overweight
Flabby
Ugly
Smoker
Talks too much
Poor personal hygiene
Stupid
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/28/2008 1:33:09 PM
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imMrBill
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Women who complain about men not doing housework(laundry, dishes etc) Then when the man does the housework they complain it's not done right.Oh you didn't fold the towels right, the silverware goes here, etc AAAARRRGGGHHH!!
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/29/2008 7:50:48 PM
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revbob4God
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So, what's left?
I have to laugh at all the piercings. I do not care for those, either.
I also wince at the sharp tongued ones, the ones who think they know the Bible and attempt to preach, the ones who wear perfume so loud it would distract the folks in the cemetery next to the church, gossips, drama queens, and the ones who dye their hair a different color every week.
Oh and I almost forgot, the ones that are so hooked on themes and such they lose track of the whole gist of something while being hung up on some theme that means absolutely nothing to anyone.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 7/29/2008 7:56:28 PM
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revbob4God
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Women who complain about men not doing housework(laundry, dishes etc) Then when the man does the housework they complain it's not done right.Oh you didn't fold the towels right, the silverware goes here, etc AAAARRRGGGHHH!!
I heartily agree with you brother Bill, but good luck with that, took me several years to figure out that the way the toilet paper roll goes on actually makes a difference.
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