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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/25/2008 9:42:29 PM
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Covaan_Meshuga
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Why do we worry so much about wishy washy Christianity and Not even bat an eye on the dead, law centred religiosity. Bottom line is Christianity is a relationship with Jesus borne out of abiding love for him. We are reconciled to God because of this relationship. Not because we can follow some rules, and display how obedient we are. Most Christians I see are really dead inside, and are displaying obedient to God but there's no love coming out of their hearts. They are condemning of everyone who are Not as religious as they are.
I have had some people call me different things at least close to the concept of quote:
the dead, law centred religiosity before.  But I sure hope that I am not quote:
dead inside, and ... displaying [obedience] to God but there's no love coming out of [my heart]. I also hope I have not condemned quote:
everyone who are Not like me!
It would be all right with me if you wish to confront me about being "law centered," though, because I would rather explain myself than be an irritation to you.
Not that I think what you said is about me (think: shades of the old song from the '60s, '70s or so: You're so vain, I'll bet you think this [post] is about you; You're so vain...).
But anyway, we all choose the mode of worship that we think is "right," and very few of us attend a congregation we don't think is right (although I, as an extreme exception, I hope, have in the past attended where I knew they were not right).
So, of course, I will say positive things about what I believe and the way I choose to live.  But I hope I have not been confrontational about it, pushy about it, etc.
And reading the rest of the posts, I have also been called legalistic, fundamentalist.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/25/2008 10:59:41 PM
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This is a large group... and yes, very wishy-washy. They want to be one person in church... but want to continue living with one foot in the world the rest of the time. They profess and claim and stand on the promises... go out that night... get high, get lucky and get in trouble; then turn around and cry in their beer about the situation GOD let them get into!
I recall in Proverbs the verse that says, "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool returns to his folly."
You say they profess and claim to stand on the promises of God....and go out and do what they do......They are "stupid." And God agrees. Proverbs 12:1" Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid. I should be-careful here, because I don't know them, to say they "hate" instruction, But this verse came to mind, because of their stupidity.
Pastrdebi...This is not what I originally thought your idea of a wishy-washy included. All though, I must come to my own defense since I wrote a testimony of how I viewed myself a wishy-washy, at one time. But your definition here, was not even close to what I was speaking. Personally, I could never go back to partying.......I find what you said very sad. My heart goes out to these who do this, and blame God for their bad choices. 
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The place where wishy-washy becomes an insult is when the people they are partying with look at them and their actions and say, "Why do I want to be a Christian, you're just like the rest of us."
    
Sad...but true!
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 1:23:47 PM
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delete123
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There is an opposite here that is just as bad.
The legalist. The holier than thou christian with forests growing in their eyes. The ones who pass by the injured man in a ditch. The ones who tithe and give offerings...for show....and do not love. The ones who prefer the best seats. The ones who look down on the poorly dressed and impoverished.
SoninMe~
Boy have I ever experienced this and it was not a good thing. Frankly it was quite hurtful. To this person I was not good enough for God, I was not living my life for God, and I was not in God will because of it.
I was all wrong and not saved because I was not reading KJV, was not baptized and didn't have an extra $5.00 at the time to go indulge in a burger.
I was not loving because at the time I was dating a man going through a divorce and if I *loved him or God I would pray reconsilation.
Then in a wink of the eye calls me to pray for more money for them, accusing another member of the congregation of not being saved! Their prayers had more power because when they prayed for someone they became ill, etc....
Oh yes, this person never knew me personally or what I have gone through or what the Lord has brought me through. Spoke to me maybe 3 times. Wow imagine what a discerner this person must be to gain all that knowledge......
and people worry about wishy washy, legalists are more dangerous to the kingdom
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 1:57:29 PM
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Covaan_Meshuga
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That's not a legalist -- that's a nut!
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 2:21:06 PM
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I like wishywashy folks because 1) I can quickly spot them and 2) I don't feel the pressure to get them saved because it is impossible.
I did not say wishywashy Christians because there is no such thing.
God knows how to deal with them and if there is a possibility that they can be saved, He may present something that gets their attention and lets them know that it is a God type event.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 2:40:12 PM
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I have no time to read 3 pages of responses.
However - to the OP - wishywashy believers are those who have not been properly discipled. No one has personally confronted them with their duplicity and made them overcome it.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 2:42:08 PM
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I did not say wishywashy Christians because there is no such thing. So you think that as soon as someone is born again they immediatly become mature believers?
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 3:04:33 PM
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I like wishywashy folks because 1) I can quickly spot them and 2) I don't feel the pressure to get them saved because it is impossible.
I did not say wishywashy Christians because there is no such thing.
God knows how to deal with them and if there is a possibility that they can be saved, He may present something that gets their attention and lets them know that it is a God type event.
Hi Walker...
I have to respectfully disagree with you... there are wishy-washy Christians, and God speaks to them in Rev. 3:16 when He says, "So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth."
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 7:58:06 PM
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I like wishywashy folks because 1) I can quickly spot them and 2) I don't feel the pressure to get them saved because it is impossible.
I did not say wishywashy Christians because there is no such thing.
God knows how to deal with them and if there is a possibility that they can be saved, He may present something that gets their attention and lets them know that it is a God type event.
Hi Walker...
I have to respectfully disagree with you... there are wishy-washy Christians, and God speaks to them in Rev. 3:16 when He says, "So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth."
That is ok! I guess it depends on your definition of the term and as to your scripture reference... imagine being vomited out of the mouth of God. What value is God's vomit?
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/27/2008 8:18:18 PM
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I think its within God's ability to change...anyone.
Unfortunatly there are churches out there that promote wishy washiness. I guess...we can call the Charlie Brown churches. Always preachin' love but not the love of God, that disciplines and tempers and grows the believer.
Encouragement is great and an edifying nature should be apparent in all christians, but we must also...judge one another and rebuke one another and...sharpen that ol' iron.
The sermon should always challenge us. It should communicate our need for God above all else. Too often its just entertainment. If you walk away from your pastor's speach without some conviction, it wasn't...from God.
Being built up starts with a strong firm foundation and that...is God's purity and perfection..and our lack thereof. You can't grow and be built up if you have no foundation. We must know our great need for Christ, to understand Who He is...and who we are.
Without this, its just another feel good club where people go to be comnfortable, eat donuts, go on ski trips and gossip. Wishy washiness is defeated by conviction. Knowing our great need for Christ and recognising His Lordship.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/28/2008 7:05:40 AM
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(donuts are ok... aren't they? )
Certainly and so are many things in church that really....have little to do with serving Christ and more to do with building bonds between us in the form of fellowship.
I would theorize that a church without some fun...is a legalist dead church.
The key is...the rason why you go to church. If all you want is a feel good sermon and lotsa donuts and coffee...then join the elks club. If you need to know God, serve God and be with His people..then....your wishy washy status is revoked.
Its not a sin to have fun...heck...you can even have fun in...church! It is a sin to only want fun.
...and I have no problem with a feel good sermon once in a while too.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/29/2008 6:19:04 AM
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However - to the OP - wishywashy believers are those who have not been properly discipled. No one has personally confronted them with their duplicity and made them overcome it.
Usually, they have been trained to regard their minds as enemy territory, the place where God is irrelevant. And trained very carefully, I might add, for 30 hours a week during their impressionable childhood years. Brainwashed to the point where a sodomy-promoting curriculum can be imposed on their children K-12, and they are perfectly cool with that innovation.
Francis Shaeffer wrote of the folly of "evangelism" that bypasses the mind and aims for direct and unmediated, unreflective experiences. If we invite people to embrace a pleasurable lunacy, a form of non-rational "spiritual experience," sooner or later they will snap back into what they know, deep in their bones, to be true. In real life, in the public sphere, there is no god but Caesar, and John Dewey is his prophet.
Reformation is a multi-generational project, a scholarly project, that takes the life of the mind seriously, and is committed to raising children to think Biblically. To be in on what God is up to in this generation in America is a costly project as well, since God calls us to turn away from Caesar's table, and the "free" fare piled up there.
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RE: Wishy-Washy Christianity.... - 6/29/2008 6:23:23 AM
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Unfortunatly there are churches out there that promote wishy washiness. I guess...we can call the Charlie Brown churches. Always preachin' love but not the love of God, that disciplines and tempers and grows the believer.
Godly and wise delegates to the Southern Baptist Convention gently suggested that it was finally time for California parents to abandon public schools, since the law out there requires the celebration of sodomy K-12 in every class.
The resolution never made it out of committee.
I guess "nice" Christians should not want to rock the boat, overturn the money changer's tables, or suggest that God expects something costly of Christian parents. </sarcasm>
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