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married to a loose cannon?? - 10/11/2008 1:41:25 PM   
Sallypride

 

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let's hear your story.
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RE: married to a loose cannon?? - 10/11/2008 2:33:14 PM   
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What exactly to you mean? Someone who's an idiot with no self control and no thoughtful consideration of any decision they make or anything they say? Or someone who's got a visionary mindset and doesn't mind sharing thier opinion regularly?

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RE: married to a loose cannon?? - 10/11/2008 9:30:20 PM   
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Sally, welcome to the forums. Since you started the thread, you initiate the conversation. You tell us your story. Ask your question and give us an idea where this thread is going.

My husband is not a loose cannon. I am the one who is the whack job.

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RE: married to a loose cannon?? - 10/12/2008 12:46:53 AM   
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My wonderful DH is steady, stable, dependable, solid .... whereas I could accurately be described as a butterfly on espresso.

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RE: married to a loose cannon?? - 10/12/2008 9:07:42 AM   
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"Loose cannon" is kind of a loaded expression, almost explosive name-calling, a powderkeg of a way to start the conversation.

Enough puns.

My wife likes to take something and run with it, and do it her way. She is strong and independent, and tends to get bored with negotiations and compromises. She doesn't like to plan stuff, but just do it. But I wouldn't call her a "loose cannon" any more than I would call myself a "wet blanket."

We both have to moderate our tendencies, and work creatively together. For example, sometimes we say "You take charge of this. I'll take charge of that" to fit my wife's needs. Other times, we meet and discuss issues and work out plans together, to meet my needs. When we are both flexible and play to each others' strengths, it works out well.

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